final leap of faith: yours truly

For the past few weeks I’ve been running the Leap of Faith series. Why? Well, I was getting ready to take my own leap of faith, and needed a nudge in the right direction.

So what’s my big news? Well, today is my last day at my desk job. Wait, what?! Okay, okay here is my story – the abbreviated version (this post will be longer than usual, so hopefully you stay until the end when I share some super fun news).

In college I majored in Advertising (account track) with a minor in French. I chose advertising as a way to explore creativity and business. I minored in French because I’ve always loved the language and culture and knew I wanted to study abroad – which I did my junior year. Less  than two weeks after graduation, I packed up my life in Dallas, made a pit stop back home in Chicago, and then moved to NYC to be an Assistant Account Executive at a large advertising agency (what I thought to be a dream job). 

Soon after starting, I knew something wasn’t right. Honestly, I think I knew before I even accepted the job it wasn’t for me. I felt very pigeon-holed by my major, and thought that I had to take the first job that came my way. I felt very blessed to graduate with a job, but always knew In the back of my mind that it wasn’t the right fit. Soon after moving to NYC, I felt very lost in my day-to-day routine, and dreaded going to work in the morning, ultimately knowing I would go home every night unfulfilled. 

One piece of advice that someone gave me was to look at your boss, and if you didn’t want to be where they are in a few years, then you should re-evaluate what you’re doing. I did this, and immediately panicked. I knew something had to change.

After months of deliberation, networking, blogging and late night phone calls to my parents, I stumbled across a great opportunity that I couldn’t pass up.

After a much needed European vacation next week, I will officially be an Associate of…

Insert SERIOUS happy dance.

I decided that life was entirely too short to not be doing what you love. I love weddings, social media, and marketing. I’ll be incorporating all of these passions while assisting Tamra. It’s still surreal to me that this is actually happening.

Talk about a leap of faith. I have no idea what my future holds in the long term, but my short-term plan is shaping to be pretty fabulous (and filled with cake, lots of cake).

No, I’m not starting my own company. Or running for President. Or writing the next Hunger Games Trilogy (well not yet anyways). But I am finally listening to the voice inside me that was screaming for a change, and I am taking a giant step in the direction of my dreams.

I hope that this series has inspired all of you to think about your passions in life, and how you want to live. The blogging world can be overwhelming at times when you feel like you’re surrounded by women who have it all. I take it all with a grain of salt, and realize that these women are successful because of their ambition, determination, work ethic and passion for what they do.

I can’t wait to keep you all updated on my life over the next few months, and I hope you all continue to stay on this blogging journey with me.  

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. I'll be galavanting around Europe for the next week or so, so stay tuned for some fabulous guest posts. xo

leap of faith: melissa

As promised this morning, here is another leap of faith story! I hope you are all feeling inspired and motivated like me. It's been such a fun series to put together. Stay tuned for a HUGE announcement tomorrow. xo

What did you major in in college / what was your first job out of college?

I majored in Marketing and English at the University of Notre Dame.  Little did I know that the combination would be a perfect foundation for starting my own freelance writing business, Melrose Street Custom Content!  My first job out of college was at a media agency where I did search marketing and magazine advertising planning/buying.  I loved learning all about magazines--the business side, editorial side, readers, and content.

How long did it take to realize it wasn't for you? What were the initial signs of "help, get me out of here!"? 

I worked at the company for about 5 1/2 years, which sounds like a long time, but I was constantly challenged through rotations to new accounts, a promotion, and new team members (though sometimes it was a little too "challenging" as far as demanding deadlines and lots of stress).  After about 4 years there, I felt the need to write more and be creative.  In thinking about my career path, I came to the realization that I didn't really want my boss's job... it was time to strive for something different.

What was the first thing you did after you left your job? Scream?

I quit in December, so at first it felt like an extended holiday vacation, but after a little bit of celebrating, I dove into marketing.  I told everyone I knew about my new business via emails, blog posts, social media, and LinkedIn.  I had already established the business side (registration, a website, logo, business cards, etc), so it was time to spread the word.

What sort of "homework" did you do before turning your passion into a career?

Back in 2010, I started working towards a Master's in Writing and Publishing at DePaul University (I'll graduate this spring!).  I created a blog,Inspiration and Rough Drafts, as a creative outlet and a space to exercise my writing skills.  I also joined Chicago Women in Publishing, took an online course called Freelance Writer's Blast-off, and read everything I could about freelancing and starting your own business.

How long have you been working for yourself?

In early 2011, I went to an event hosted by Chicago Women in Publishing and was completely inspired to venture into the world of freelancing.  At that point, I worked to set up the business, but I didn't actually go out on my own until I quit my job in December 2011.

What is the scariest thing about doing what you did?

Leaving behind the salary, benefits, and that sense of security.  It's a big leap of faith, and as much as it's fun to dream, I had to consider the practical side.  (I did a lot of praying, discussing, and number-crunching with my husband!  I couldn't have made the leap without knowing he was on board, and I am so thankful for all his support.)  Other scary parts: the uncertainty of not always knowing what to do... and facing the possibility of rejection and failure.

Do you ever regret leaving your day job? 

Not yet!  Life is super busy right now, and some days are really tough, but I am happy with the choice I made... I'm following my dream!

What is your #1 piece of advice to people scared to follow their dreams in fear of failure?

Consider the worst case and best case scenario... you'll find that the benefits of the best case scenario often outweigh the negatives of the worst case.  Take the first step and keep moving forward.  And don't be afraid to lean on other people for support--your family, friends, or other small business owners.

leap of faith: roxy from my cup of te/society social

You've probably noticed a theme this week -- tons of leaps of faith! Why? Because I love all of these women, and they are inspiring me so much, that I just had to share their stories with you. 

Today I'm honored to be featuring one of my mentors and newest friends in NYC - Roxy! You might know her from this post, or this post, or even this post. I have a bit of an obsession with her business - Society Social. Best part? She is as sweet and cheery in person as her website. She is an inspiration to us all to pop the champagne and live your best life every day. 

Stay tuned -- I'll be featuring another leap of faith this afternoon. Hint Hint: tomorrow I'm making a HUGE announcement. 

What did you major in college/what was your first job out of college? 

I majored in Business Management with a concentration in Marketing and minored in French at North Carolina State University. I went on to grad school at Parsons The New School for Design in NYC. My inspiring professors and amazing internships convinced me I was meant to be on the business side of fashion and immediately after graduating I was accepted into the executive training program at a major department store. Basically it's the fast track to becoming a fashion buyer!

How long did it take to realize it wasn't for you? What were the initial signs of "help! get me out of here!"?
I gave it a good two years. I really wanted it to work, but the fit just wasn't right. With the economy in the tank, they cut traveling so I was stuck in the office number crunching. That was it. Creatively, I felt like I died. And I could not see myself in my boss' position in 20 years. She was pretty miserable. That's how you know.  

What was the first thing you did after you left your job? scream? cry? take a trip?
It felt so good to peace out on "the man." I basically skipped out of the corporate office then immediately packed up for a solo beach trip to clear my head. Nothing but a good read and the carolina shore. It was re-energizing and a great time to think about the re-direction of my life and career.  

What sort of "homework" did you do before turning your passion into a career? (masters program, networking, online research etc)?
Honestly after being honed in on one thing that you are positive you are meant to be doing, it's intensely disorienting when it doesn't work out. I took about a year to regroup and refocus; my blog, My Cup of Te, was a big part of that. I feel like this description in the about section of my blog explains just how much it really brought me back to life and how it helped me realize what I was most passionate about.

"I started this blog right after escaping the soul-deadening doldrums of my claustrophobic cubicle, in hopes of re-discovering all I felt I had lost, the most vital parts of my true self, the living, breathing parts that make up me, and the parts that are unmistakably My Cup of Te. Here at My Cup of Te, I revel in all things inspiring and happiness-inducing! Things that spark the imagination, awaken a dream, or simply produce a smile!  I truly hope that you enjoy My Cup of Te, but most importantly, I hope that you’ve found yours." 

How long have you been working for yourself?
I launched my business, Society Social, in August 2011 so about 5 months! It's definitely not even close to easy, but I can't complain. I love it!

What is the scariest thing about doing what you did?

What I did in leaving my job was definitely not the scary thing. Sure it was a little nerve-racking giving up a stable salary and benefits, but truly the most terrifying thing is not finding work that doesn't feel like work! I want to "play" the rest of my life :)

Do you ever regret leaving your day job?

NEVER! (insert happy dance) 

What is your #1 piece of advice to people scared to follow their dreams in fear of failure?

Don’t focus on the failure, or even the success. Focus on the things you love and the rest will come. After I left my stable job, I frantically rushed around trying to figure out what it was that I wanted to do with my life.  It seemed the harder I tried to focus in on that “big idea,” the more it eluded me and being unemployed, pinching pennies didn’t help! When I finally quit worrying about “making something of myself” and started pouring my efforts into getting back in touch with all the things I love, again my blog My Cup of Te was a huge part of that, things started to fall into place. And last but not least, don’t confuse “fall into place” with hard work!

The quote is one of my daily mantras and also a Society Social founding principle. It always reminds me to just go for it whether I'm getting dressed, mixing cocktails, or going after my dreams!

Thank you thank you Roxy! xo

leap of faith: mackenzie from design darling

We all know her. 

We all love her.

I don't think she needs much of an intro, but today I bring you Mackenzie from Design Darling to share her Leap of Faith story. I stalk her blog regularly for inspiration, and I'm beyond excited for her e-Commerce site to launch in March. Her ambition and courage is extremely admirable, and I know she will be successful at whatever she does. 

What did you major in in college / what was your first job out of college?

I studied French language and literature at Bucknell University. I haven't spoken a lick of French since I graduated but it was important to me to study something I loved. A week after graduation this past May, I moved to San Francisco to intern for Rue Magazine. At the end of the summer, I moved back home to work for a PR firm in New York.

How long did it take to realize it wasn't for you? What were the initial signs of "help, get me out of here!"?

I left both positions around the two month mark but truthfully I knew in my gut much earlier that I wasn't happy (Rue because I was so far away from my family and friends, PR because I was working long hours doing something I hated). Steve Jobs said, "For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself, 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'no' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something."

What was the first thing you did after you left your job? Scream?

Honestly I had a hard time believing that I'd actually done it! There were a lot of late night conversations with my parents and my boyfriend about what to do next. Once I decided that an online boutique would be my dream come true, I got to work and haven't looked back!

What sort of "homework" did you do before turning your passion into a career? 

I emailed my favorite bloggers, explained what I was thinking, and asked for advice. It was comforting and inspiring to know that so many of them were in the same boat, getting ready to launch businesses in tandem with the personal brands they had developed online. It has been such a blessing to bounce ideas off one another and cheer each other on from one milestone to the next!

How long have you been working for yourself?

I became self-employed in November, founded Design Darling LLC in December, and will launch my e-commerce boutique on March 1!

What is the scariest thing about doing what you did?

Not knowing whether it will pay off! But the support of fellow bloggers and readers has been exceptional. I wouldn't have the courage to be launching a business this early in my career without their daily encouragement!

Do you ever regret leaving your day job?

In all honesty, not for a second. That's not to say that it's all been smooth sailing but I'll take adventure over stability any day. Life is meant to be lived!

What is your #1 piece of advice to people scared to follow their dreams in fear of failure?

Start a blog to hone your aesthetic and connect with like-minded people. Reach out to people you admire — I think you'll be surprised at how many of them are willing to help. Surround yourself with people who have your best interests in mind, whether that's family and friends or an online community. And most importantly, do what you love and love what you do!

I'm inspired by bloggers, books, coffee, color, entrepreneurs, fashion, flowers, good handwriting,  interiors, magazines, and more! Thank you, Julia, for having me! xx

Holy gorgeous. Isn't that spread beautiful?? Thanks for the inspiring story Mackenzie! I know you will be a HUGE success.

leap of faith: liz from sequins and stripes

Today I'm excited to bring you the second installment of Leap of Faith. I was so honored that Liz, the genius behind Sequins & Stripes and stylist at Elizabeth Schneider Styling, agreed to share her story. She is one of my daily reads, and always offers the most perfect styling tips and advice.  

What was your major in college/what was your first job out of college? 

I majored in Textiles and Clothing with a focus in consumer trends, buying and merchandising. After I graduated I took a job as a clothing buyer for a small Midwest boutique chain based in the suburbs of Chicago.

How long did it take to realize it wasn't for you? What were the initial signs of "help! get me out of here!"?

I have to say that I actually really enjoyed my job but I decided after a couple of years in the position that I wouldn’t be given ample opportunity to do what I love. So, I put in my two weeks, took a few classes in fashion design, started a blog, and took a job with a contractor in Chicago before eventually making the leap into styling!

What was the first thing you did after you left your job? scream? cry? take a trip?

I was so excited! I felt like I had a clean slate to create the life that I wanted to live. I left my desk job in September of 2011, went to Europe for a month, and officially launched styling services in January 2012.

What sort of "homework" did you do before turning your passion into a career? (masters program, networking, online research etc)?

My blog was a huge starting point for launching my business. Aside from creating a platform for my personal style through Sequins & Stripes, I spoke with local stylists and sort of just went with my gut!

How long have you been working for yourself?

Sequins & Stripes, LLC was created in September 2011.

What is the scariest thing about doing what you did?

I think the uncertainty of it all is the biggest stress. Running a company is so far from glamorous, and staying determined and confident in what you have to offer is the only way to see success.

Do you ever regret leaving your day job?

When I let myself get discouraged, then I can catch myself missing the comfort and stability of my day job, but I have never looked back! This leap has been completely liberating and rewarding.

What is your #1 piece of advice to people scared to follow their dreams in fear of failure?

Honestly it is tough. All you can do is believe in yourself, push forward, and trust that everyday will be better than the last. Be confident, you only have one life to make your dreams a reality! 

Thank you for your inspiring story Liz! Be sure to check out her blog, if you don't already (which you should!) xo

new series: leap of faith

Today I start a new series titled, Leap of Faith. I was feeling so inspired by people in the blogosphere, that I wanted to learn more. 

I'm your typical 20-something who is overly ambitious, and won't settle for anything less than fabulous. My post-grad career hasn't been quite what I expected yet, but I remain optimistic and know that through these crazy #postgradproblems (yes I just hashtagged a post), I WILL figure it out. 

My Pinterest boards are filled with words of wisdom, and I keep this quote on my desk as a daily reminder to never settle, and continue to dream big. One of my reasons for starting this blog was to find inspiration to keep me driven and optimistic while battling the 9-5(mostly 7pm) blues.

I start this series with Alex, from Things that Sparkle, who as you may know, was my neighbor growing up. We're four years a part, so we weren't close back in the day. However, this crazy blog world has allowed us to be good friends, and I was even her first e-design client. I'm so inspired by her ambition and courage, that I wanted to dive a little deeper. She took this leap of faith not too long ago, and has never looked back. 

Hi all, I am Alex from Things That Sparkle and I am so honored that Julia asked me to be a part of this exciting new series.

What did you major in college/what was your first job out of college? 

I majored in Communication at University of Colorado. Within 3 days of graduation I started my job at OgilvyAction as an Assistant Account Executive. 

How long did it take to realize it wasn't for you? What were the initial signs of "help! get me out of here!"?

I think I realized more quickly than I was willing to admit that it wasn't the right fit for me. It really had been my "dream job", or at least I thought. There were components of the job I loved. The client interaction and the team environment, but overall, I wasn't fulfilled. It wasn't the dream job I thought it would be. But I also thought, "well that's reality things aren't always perfect, keep pushing through". A month shy of my two month anniversary, it clicked. I couldn't do it anymore. I was crying in conference rooms and telling myself it was normal. So I left. Got up one morning and quit.

What was the first thing you did after you left your job? scream? cry? take a trip?

All of the above. Seriously. Thankfully, I had already booked a trip to Mexico with my girlfriends. So that was a nice escape. But I was really lost. I left my job thinking I was taking another job in the same industry and while in Mexico I realized that was SO not what I wanted to be doing.

What sort of "homework" did you do before turning your passion into a career? (masters program, networking, online research etc)?

I met with some people who had gone through the same post-graduate program I was looking into. I got an internship in the interior design field. And then enrolled in the associates program at Harrington College of Design. I also worked really hard at expanding my blog during this time as I quickly realized what an amazing asset it would be for me. 

How long have you been working for yourself?

About 5 months! Very new still.

What is the scariest thing about doing what you did?

Everything. Leaving the job security, benefits and a salary. I mean, really, what was I thinking??

Do you ever regret leaving your day job?

Not for one minute. I know it was the best thing I have ever done for myself. 

What is your #1 piece of advice to people scared to follow their dreams in fear of failure?

It is scary. You should be scared. But I really, really, deeply believe that if you are 100% invested in something you can find a way to make it work. Maybe not in the exact way you envisioned, but it will come together.  I think it is important to be realistic, understand your industry but still be optimistic. It is well worth it.

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I hope you're all feeling as inspired as I am. Thank you, thank you Alex!

P.S. I'm over at A Simple Affair sharing my favorite things that start with the letter "J". There are some serious goodies, so be sure to show Carly some love!